Make this Valentine's Day
unforgettable for your boyfriend. You want to know how?
Some of the best Valentine's Day ideas
for boyfriend
Valentine’s Day is coming up. Are you running out of ideas!
Like, I have given so many gifts already…I made a Scrapbook, I made a jar full
of notes, bought him shirts, leather bracelets, letters, DVDs, candy, snacks,
drinks and all that jazz. Now, I wanna do something out of the ordinary?
Something he will really like and enjoy. Right? From what I’ve asked around
most women are really confused when it comes to deciding what to give their
men. Maybe, some of these tips would help?
Actions Affect Feelings
How can you deepen your love for
someone?
The way God created us, actions affect our feelings most.
The best way to feel loving is to be loving -- and that means giving. While
most people believe love leads to giving, the truth (as Rabbi Eliyahu Dessler
writes in his famous discourse on loving kindness) is exactly the opposite:
Giving leads to love.
So when you are planning give something special for him,
start trying to think of the things that he would like the best, even if they
are totally unexciting or unromantic to you. Sounds awkward! Correct? I know,
you have to often hold your nose because they don’t seem like the way to
celebrate a romantic holiday to you as a woman; but they are the ones that if
any of you are truly trying to win over the heart of a man, will work like the
proverbial charm.
Valentine’s Day Ideas for Him
Men are simple
Give Him What He loves most!
It's the thought that counts
Crafty things like balloons, poems, scrapbook or candy
trails – what he would probably think of as something out of chick flick, tend
to appeal feminine romantic notions rather than men’s. But there are certainly
no lack of ideas for a girlfriend or wife to create a special day, it just
comes down to being careful to remember that what they are doing is not
necessarily what they would want for themselves. Men’s are not complicated that
way.
Speaking to some male friends of mine, the immediate
response to their Valentines Day needs were, “gadgets, something erotic, or
something hilarious”.
Take a step back and think what would your special guy like
the best?
Is he a Gadget freak?
Boys love their toys. That seven year old in men never die.
Mobile phones, mp3 players, I-pod, GPS, laptops, digi-cams, faster engines in
their cars, you name it, they want it. Getting your man a brand new phone or 32
GB Ipod would be a really good bet. Find out which gadget of his he has been
cribbing about lately, which is not a very hard thing to do, because if their
gadget is faulty you will hear about it.
Weekend Getaway Trip
Perfect For: The Guy Who Works 60 Hours a Week
A few days away at a local getaway is the perfect way to
recharge your boyfriend or husband. This gift is a bit of a splurge, but it's a
welcome surprise for overworked guys.
Fool him by buying a piece of luggage or a travel case and
presenting that to him wrapped up as his Valentine's Day present. If you're
giving him luggage, pack enough clothing inside for two days away and print out
a piece of paper with the hotel or ticket confirmation and place it on top.
For a travel case, add in a travel toothbrush, mini
toothpaste and a nice set of men's travel cosmetics with the travel
confirmation on top. Make sure you tell him to open it.
Then, watch as his face lights up when he realizes what the
real gift is!
Give Him a Trophy
Best boyfriend in the world
One of the best Valentine's Day ideas for boyfriend is to
give him a trophy proclaiming "Best boyfriend in the world". I
believe there is no better gift for a man than to massage his ego. You might
say that I am a woman of today and I do not need to do that. But still, I
suggest for one day in the whole year, you can make him feel like a
"superman" and you will reap its benefits for the rest of the days.
Cook for Him
As the old cliche goes, "the best way to a man's heart
is through his stomach". You will undoubtedly be the coolest girlfriend or
wife around when you brighten his Valentine's Day with delicious food. A woman
needs love, care, protection, companionship, blah blah blah! But if you are
wondering what a man needs? Food, sex and newspaper... Since reading newspaper
will be damn boring and sex is something you have to decide depending upon your
age and how deep you are into the relationship. So giving him delicious,
home-cooked food is the best option. When planning a dinner for him, lay great
emphasis on the surroundings as well. For example, keep candles on the table
and good wine glasses.
Or, plan a romantic dinner.
Dress-up for Him
Or, plan a romantic dinner.
Dress-up for Him
And of course the day usually ends in that private way
between couples that in my opinion is much over discussed. Put on that sexy,
little back dress and high heeled shoes. Be well groomed and properly waxed.
Use proper make-up that highlight your best features and hide your flaws. In
short, a time-tested Valentine's Day ideas for boyfriend is to become the woman
of his dreams on Valentine's Day. Since men are considered to be more of visual
creatures, he will appreciate your good looks and love you for the extra effort
that you have put in to please him.
Not Only Saying “I love You”, But
Showing It
Love is behaving lovingly through
continual, unconditional giving
What? Leave out the chocolates and the hearts and pink
stuff? Ladies, if you give your man a day like this, I promise each of you that
he will feel that nothing is wanting. It is important for even well-meaning
girlfriends and wives to admit to themselves (so they don't just keep trying to
express their affection in a way that won't get results), that a lot of that stuff
is the kind of thing THEY like, and that their men are totally different,
simple, creatures.
